Making space for everyday conversations

There does not have to be a lot to say for a conversation to matter. Making time to listen can be a useful place to start.

The NHS suggests speaking clearly, keeping sentences short and giving the person time to answer. Try to avoid interrupting, even when you think you know what they mean. If background television or radio is distracting, ask whether they would like it turned down.

Listen beyond the words

Notice facial expressions and gestures as well as speech. Stay calm, check that you have understood and give the person space to express what they want. Offer simple choices when that helps, while continuing to include them in conversations about their own life.

Read the NHS guidance on communicating with someone with dementia for more detail. This article shares general ideas, not individual medical advice.

What helps a conversation feel comfortable in your family? Please avoid identifying another person in your comment.